is for the average.

The ordinary.

And you are neither.


You made it!

I'm super excited you're here.

Whether anyone else knows this about you or not, you know who you are:

an artist
a creative
a rebel
a leader

who's ready to change the world.

When you're happiest, most passionate, most excited about life, you're not just following the crowd, doing "what we've always done." 

You're doing your own thing. The stuff that makes you light up inside. And like-minded people are drawn to you when you're in that space.

When you decide to paddle upstream—against your own inner current of passion and vitality, just wanting to blend in, fit in, get some easy acceptance from others—it can end up being more tiring than you anticipated, especially over long periods of time.

It can be downright exhausting.

And so—you're done.

You're tired of the status quo, of conforming to other people's ideas of who and what you should be and how you should live your life. 

You're ready to step into the current of your own life and flow with the Source within you.

This isn't always easy, especially when you're surrounded by people who just don't get it.

But you know, deep down, that it's always more rewarding in the end...

...because it's who you were born to Be,
and what you were born to do.

You were not born to conform.

You were born to transform:

Your own life, from the inside out.

And then marvel at how your brilliant, unique, playful, passionate life then affects and transforms the world around you.

Only you can do that.

So, welcome. This is another step in your journey,
and I'm thrilled you made it here.

Sending you love, light,
and inspired belief in who You Are.


When you're finally in that space—you're done with conformity, done with all the "should"s, ready to step into the fulness of all you were meant to be, do, and have—one-on-one coaching could be exactly what you need to help you get there. Stan uses creative, incisive, inspiring processes to get to the core of what keeps you where you are, and helps you create a plan to move forward in meaningful, lasting ways. 



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"Engaging, direct, uplifting..."

— Intersectionality Keynote Audience Member


Whether you need an inspirational keynote for your personal or professional development event, or an engaging talk or training on gender diversity or intersectionality, Stan is ready for you. With experience speaking to all kinds of groups—leadership teams, conference attendees, government agencies, military units, spiritual communities, and more—his diverse background, openness, and commitment to holistic learning and growth make him the perfect speaker for your diverse group.


Unity in Diversity


Stan has worked in LGBTQIA+ communities over the last decade, facilitating connection and growth for those dealing with personal issues of sex, gender, or sexual orientation, reconciling faith with those aspects of their lives, and for those on the outside looking in, trying to make sense of it all. Stan is also a certified equal opportunity practitioner and mediator with the U.S. Department of Defense, and works to educate soldiers and civilians on all things related to equality, diversity, and developing organizational culture and climate as part of his job in the Army Reserve. He's available for keynotes, workshops, and small group training.

The Nonconformance Coach

Stan Maszczak is a speaker, diversity educator, and nonconformance coach, helping people totally ditch conformity so they can thrive in personal & professional relationships, career, creativity, and spirituality.

He's also a gay, genderqueer combat veteran and self-ascribed karaoke superstar with an an affinity for high heels, the oxford comma, non-binary fashion, and inflicting cognitive dissonance on anyone who could use some.